Local Chat & People Near

Aaron Benjamin
Aaron Benjamin
Distant
🧠
Share insights
🏘️
Meet neighbors
🚑
Can help
Calm, capable, and slightly off beat. I build things that probably shouldn't work but do. Lets skip the small talk and do something interesting.
Scan QR code to
download Kikihub
on your device.
QR code to download Kikihub
3Posts
Last Signal

There is a particular silence that only exists between two people who are no longer speaking but haven’t admitted it yet.

It lives inside the small blue light of a screen.

You tell yourself it’s nothing. People are busy. People sleep. People forget. You learn to accept the delay as a neutral fact, the way you accept weather.

But delay has texture.

You begin to notice the difference between a person who hasn’t responded and a person who has chosen not to.

It isn’t visible in the message itself. It’s visible in the absence of the next one.

Technology promised constant access, but what it delivered was constant awareness. You can feel someone drifting away in real time now. You can watch your importance diminish without ever hearing a word.

There was a time when distance had mercy. When silence meant you simply didn’t know. When you could imagine someone thinking of you without evidence to the contrary.

Now the evidence is everywhere.

You see them online. You see them active. You see them existing in a world that continues without you.

It makes absence feel intentional.

In person, people reveal themselves in fragments. A glance they didn’t mean to give. A hesitation before answering. A posture that says more than their voice ever will.

Presence leaves fingerprints.

Digital communication leaves none.

It is possible now to remove yourself from someone’s life so gradually that neither of you can name the moment it happened.

No argument.

No ending.

Just fewer words.
Longer pauses.
Eventually, nothing.

The conversation doesn’t die.

It dissolves.

And the last thing it leaves behind is proof that it was once alive.
Avatar Aaron Benjamin

Aaron Benjamin

Last Signal There is a particular silence that only exists between two people who are no longer speaking but haven’t admitted it yet. It lives inside the small blue light of a screen. You tell yourself it’s nothing. People are busy. People sleep. People forget. You learn to accept the delay as a neutral fact, the way you accept weather. But delay has texture. You begin to notice the difference between a person who hasn’t responded and a person who has chosen not to. It isn’t visible in the message itself. It’s visible in the absence of the next one. Technology promised constant access, but what it delivered was constant awareness. You can feel someone drifting away in real time now. You can watch your importance diminish without ever hearing a word. There was a time when distance had mercy. When silence meant you simply didn’t know. When you could imagine someone thinking of you without evidence to the contrary. Now the evidence is everywhere. You see them online. You see them active. You see them existing in a world that continues without you. It makes absence feel intentional. In person, people reveal themselves in fragments. A glance they didn’t mean to give. A hesitation before answering. A posture that says more than their voice ever will. Presence leaves fingerprints. Digital communication leaves none. It is possible now to remove yourself from someone’s life so gradually that neither of you can name the moment it happened. No argument. No ending. Just fewer words. Longer pauses. Eventually, nothing. The conversation doesn’t die. It dissolves. And the last thing it leaves behind is proof that it was once alive.

❤️1
📵1
🖤1
"Beauty, Like War"

My 2009 series of photographs is an exploration of the damaging impact of societal expectations on our perception of beauty. I called this body of work 'Beauty, Like War' because it seemed to me that we are constantly at war with ourselves over these impossible standards.

To create these images, I deliberately corrupted them - I changed them in ways that were meant to make them unrecognizable from their original form. This may seem like the opposite approach to creating something beautiful, but what I've found is that as the changes to the image grew more distorted, so too did its beauty.

The trauma and degradation inflicted upon these images led me to reevaluate my preconceived notions about beauty. They made me realize that what we call 'beauty' is nothing less than a social construct designed to control us.

And yet, while each change can be seen as an assault on the image's original integrity, it's undeniable that they've become more beautiful in their distorted forms.

I'm no longer content with accepting the beauty standards imposed upon me by society. I want to subvert them and challenge my own perception of what makes something beautiful.

In this way, 'Beauty, Like War' is not only a visual representation of the struggle against societal norms, but also a personal statement about embracing the beauty in my own brokenness."
Avatar Aaron Benjamin

Aaron Benjamin

"Beauty, Like War" My 2009 series of photographs is an exploration of the damaging impact of societal expectations on our perception of beauty. I called this body of work 'Beauty, Like War' because it seemed to me that we are constantly at war with ourselves over these impossible standards. To create these images, I deliberately corrupted them - I changed them in ways that were meant to make them unrecognizable from their original form. This may seem like the opposite approach to creating something beautiful, but what I've found is that as the changes to the image grew more distorted, so too did its beauty. The trauma and degradation inflicted upon these images led me to reevaluate my preconceived notions about beauty. They made me realize that what we call 'beauty' is nothing less than a social construct designed to control us. And yet, while each change can be seen as an assault on the image's original integrity, it's undeniable that they've become more beautiful in their distorted forms. I'm no longer content with accepting the beauty standards imposed upon me by society. I want to subvert them and challenge my own perception of what makes something beautiful. In this way, 'Beauty, Like War' is not only a visual representation of the struggle against societal norms, but also a personal statement about embracing the beauty in my own brokenness."

❤️5
💥1
Occupy Detroit was part of the global Occupy Movement, a protest that started in September 2011 in New York City's Zuccotti Park and spread to more than 600 cities worldwide. The movement aimed to bring attention to issues such as income inequality, corporate power and greed, police brutality, and political oppression. In Detroit, the occupation began on October 9, 2011, at Campus Martius Park in downtown Detroit. Protesters set up tents and held daily general assemblies. They also organized marches and rallies throughout the city. The movement was led by local residents and activists who were inspired by the Occupy Wall Street movement. Despite facing several challenges, including harassment from police and eviction notices, the occupation persisted for several months, inspiring conversations about the need for systemic change in Detroit and beyond.
Avatar Aaron Benjamin

Aaron Benjamin

Occupy Detroit was part of the global Occupy Movement, a protest that started in September 2011 in New York City's Zuccotti Park and spread to more than 600 cities worldwide. The movement aimed to bring attention to issues such as income inequality, corporate power and greed, police brutality, and political oppression. In Detroit, the occupation began on October 9, 2011, at Campus Martius Park in downtown Detroit. Protesters set up tents and held daily general assemblies. They also organized marches and rallies throughout the city. The movement was led by local residents and activists who were inspired by the Occupy Wall Street movement. Despite facing several challenges, including harassment from police and eviction notices, the occupation persisted for several months, inspiring conversations about the need for systemic change in Detroit and beyond.

❤️1
1