In 6 hours and 29 minutes as I write this my wife died suddenly 9 years ago. to say it rock my world would be a dramatic understatement I have a question though as nice as people are for people have referred to Kim's death and this date as the ”anniversary” of her death. I've heard thatI the only one that thinks that's very inappropriate? By definition an anniversary is a celebration right? think of a wedding. now reverse it do you think of your wedding anniversary in the same way you think of death? if you do you might need to go to see some marriage counseling right away LOL. so many people do it they still say the Anniversary of 9/11, They don't mean it that way but it's always a pet peeve of mine. why can't we just say shé passed away 9 years ago quiet somber final, ,