Fred N.

February 11, 2026 19:57

I think this is another good question is begins the second quarter of the year at the end of March even if it's yourself is there anyone you would really like to forgive maybe go back to him and talk and straighten things out or is once the door closed you just move on and never look back?

Fred N.

February 11, 2026 16:29

I like deep philosophical questions you can ponder on some quiet time alone I have multiple answers for this but for me I think it's probably one should be able to say I did my absolute best I tried everything to make it all work and I'm satisfied with what I've done. before my dad died of cancer he said to me as we watched the Celtics basketball game the commentators were talking about someone who had died being a great guy my father said that's all I want is to be known as a great guy who helped everyone it did all he could I thought it was a joke. I was embarrassed that's all he wanted out of life but it wasn't he wanted a lot more but in the end that's what really mattered.

Fred N.

February 11, 2026 15:54

Question. What would you immediately do differently right now if you knew either no one would ever find out or if they did no one would ever judge you? you have complete control and free choice to do something that people might be surprised you want to do I can be anything.

Fred N.

February 11, 2026 14:14

Question. What is something you will never give up on?

Fred N.

February 11, 2026 01:51

hello I really like some advice I've only been here for 3 days I have sent only nine private messages to people who really impressed me with their posts. I apologize for sending them a PM because I don't know if it's right but I say I'd love what she said I'd like to talk to you about it everyone else I read only writes one to four words to their post I think that they'd really like the opportunity it's only six to eight lines but comments I get back six times are my God you're right a lot we're on a chat room you supposed to talk I want to find people who have something to say who really think what's wrong with that but I do it's six to eight lines and I get that response if you do not want to talk why not just sit in a room quietly with your dog and stare at each other lol of course that's ridiculous but come on am I the only one that sees this do you all just prefer one to five words?

Fred N.

February 10, 2026 15:51

wow I've only been here for 3 days but for the second time somebody said you sound cool let's talk and then both times they said wow you talk too much I said then find somebody who doesn't I said so many people here in comments only right one to four words and really say nothing you've got tons of people to choose from but seriously aren't we in a chat room a chat site aren't you supposed to talk? if you don't want to talk leave her and go read a book LOL

Fred N.

February 10, 2026 12:04

Uggh. I am up early on the shuttle bus traveling again I do this a lot. I am curious what anyone today would say is the most prized possession you have an absolutely can be a car a watch a ring a boat a house anything physical or financial. beyond that it could be a friendship it could be a sweater that you have that still has the smell of somebody no longer in your life for whatever reason it can be your ability to draw or to dance or to make people happy or just to be there something about you that isn't always tangible. you get my point I hope but what is it what one special thing do you prize right now above everything else?

Fred N.

February 10, 2026 11:20

what is something that makes you nervous or scared, but you would really like to try to do this year?

Fred N.

February 10, 2026 02:16

LOL I have to say maybe it's because I'm 61 years old and I was brought up by an English teacher and grandmother who was literary teacher at Brown University that I've always been able to say a complete sentence it astonishes me I mean it's simply astonishes me at 61 today that teenagers say through 40 years old on all these chat sites when you asked him a question will answer using acronyms never a full sentence and never more than one to four words look at anything here that is posted when somebody says what do you think of my outfit people only respond nice that's hot absolutely useless feedback do you all like that are you like these idiots who are our presidents and this was an AI image not real don't block me or delete it it's only a joke I just loved and had to share it's not real but why is it people are so scared even in chat rooms to say anything do you simply have nothing on your minds nothing to offer it's a pretty sad State of affairs. no depth no thought just nothing. please anyone anyone at all show me I'm wrong say something of value of death of interest not just one to three words

Fred N.

February 9, 2026 17:54

Am I alone or can others relate to this as well. LOL I'm not a psychopath I just say and do things that most people wouldn't. I guess that's why I still am a bíg Eminem fan...he gets it!

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Fred N.

February 9, 2026 13:32

Happy Monday everybody I hope that you all have a great week and enjoy the upcoming Valentine's Day

Fred N.

February 9, 2026 10:23

LOL...so true...so true!

Fred N.

February 9, 2026 10:21

In 6 hours and 29 minutes as I write this my wife died suddenly 9 years ago. to say it rock my world would be a dramatic understatement I have a question though as nice as people are for people have referred to Kim's death and this date as the ”anniversary” of her death. I've heard thatI the only one that thinks that's very inappropriate? By definition an anniversary is a celebration right? think of a wedding. now reverse it do you think of your wedding anniversary in the same way you think of death? if you do you might need to go to see some marriage counseling right away LOL. so many people do it they still say the Anniversary of 9/11, They don't mean it that way but it's always a pet peeve of mine. why can't we just say shé passed away 9 years ago quiet somber final, ,

Fred N.

February 9, 2026 09:47

When I meet somebody who interests me I go through the traditional social practice of asking them simple questions to break the ice. however I have never been either simple nor traditional I like to dig right into who they are to see how we might connect with questions that others might not ask them and they even be personal as we go along. I am always open to doing the same I don't hold back and I don't hide anything. I try to be creative and sometimes a little deep. but after those initial questions here are just two I might choose to ask especially if the person says "Ask me anything?"if we ever talk or meet by the way that is something you absolutely do not want to give me the ability to ask they'll probably end the conversation. I like to play nice though but again ask something to get to know them. Feel free to answer if so inclined: 1. What is one thing your life has taught you good or bad that you never expected? 2. With your permission where I to ask two of the people closest to you right now to privately tell me what they think your greatest strength is and maybe your biggest weakness how would they respond and would they be correct? * A clarification saying that they would respond "Who the hell are you? Leave me alone and mind your f#cking business!", does not count as a response to my questions. Only my parents could get away with that when I was a child asking them what are we doing this weekend. 😆